Monday, November 24, 2025

Playa del Carmen

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Kate and I left the cold and snow of November for the sun and beaches of Playa del Carmen on the Mayan Riviera. We flew Air Transat, the holiday package was through them, out of Toronto on the Monday afternoon of November 10 to Cancun where we were shuttled down the coast about an hour or so to our all-inclusive resort, the Reef Coco Beach, very near the heart of town Playa del Carmen. We were there for a two week vacation and returned on November 14.

If you're brave enough to venture into the photo album at left you may be bored with too many sunrise/sunset photos like that shown. Every morning I was up to catch the sunrise; likewise every evening for sunset.

Our intention was to find a comfortable place where it would be warm and we could do a bit of snorkeling, swimming and have a fast internet so we could work on our photos and this blog. We're not resort types, we'd much rather visit an interesting city (like Austin) or a country like Australia, but have been to resorts like this before. When my brother Paul lived in Halifax (he's in Thailand now) we used to meet up with him and Judy for a week in the winter at a Caribbean all-inclusive resort (e.g., see Cuba (2005) and Mexico (2006)). That worked well then, we would visit and explore a bit together.

This resort is in, or at least very close to, the city of Playa del Carmen. The resort is on the beach with the city right behind us. To the north there's a large public beach, Playa coco beach, with some fenced off rough bush land (probably soon to be developed as yet another resort). To the south it's miles and miles of resorts right on the beach. The beach at our resort is somewhat protected by a nearby reef that we had hoped to swim to. Unfortunately many, many fishing and diving boats use that reef as a shelter — it's a bit of a busy harbor or anchorage for the many boats in the area. This meant swimming out through the boats would be dangerous at best (cf. Kirsty MacCall and her death at Cozumel). And, while most days were calm in the morning, the wind would regularly pick up which made for choppy waters. We often noted sailboarding and kitesurfing on the large area to the north of us.

With respect to the beach, to add insult to injury the resort has a fenced off swimming area to keep those boats away. The water quality within this fenced off area was awful with plastics, wipes and other crap floating about. And to add insult to that injury the beach, when we arrived, was awash in heaps and heaps of sargassum (a prolific seaweed and a problem throughout the Caribbean).  To give the town and resort credit there were staff and machinery out every day to clean up the seaweed. I had thought their battle was a lot like the myth of Sisyphus; I am surprised at how effective they were!

All of the above means we didn't swim much in the ocean. Every day we'd go down to the dive shop and ask about snorkeling. They were always sending out scuba divers and they always promised us that they would send us out tomorrow, another day when it's not so windy, the weekend looks better, etc. That never happened. We did end up going out on a short catamaran tour out of a resort some distance to the north of us at Playa Maroma. Oddly, they wouldn't let me take any pictures with "that camera" although they were keen to sell us pictures they had taken. Oh yes, and I couldn't get my go-Pro wanna be under water camera to work. Sheeet!

We paid extra for better seats on Air Transat to accommodate Kate's mobility problems. The seats had a bit more room and were a little less crowded; but only a little. On long flights, like to Europe in June, we pay for business class seats and Kate insists on lay flat sleeping pods for overnight trips. Part of this trip was to see how Kate might fair on a daytime flight to this part of the world — we're thinking of a long stay trip to Central America this winter. Kate survived (obviously) but it was not easy for her.

We arrived very late in the evening of November 10; I recall it was around 10:30 or 11:00 at night. Kate was in considerable pain having been up and about for 12 hours. The shuttle, which we were told would drop us off first, drove through Playa del Carmen to the very large gated community of Playacar on the south end of the city before returning us, the last passengers, to our hotel on the north end of the city. This was a needlessly long an bumpy ride through the rough streets of Playa del Carmen and resort lanes of Playacar.

We were given a room with two single beds on the top floor above the hotel reception as far as possible from the ocean. This was not the partial ocean view room we had bargained on and paid extra for. We were not happy and there was no other room for us at that time of the day. It might have been worse, we met a couple who spent their first night at another Reef Resort (actually a hotel) in the city center. The next day we meet up with a resort Hospitality Manager/Liason, Yullianna, who appreciated our problem and helped sort things out. She found us lolling on the beach and took us to a much nicer room, with a king bed, close to the shore, a very good partial ocean view, and overlooking the pool. We were moved to this room after it was vacated and tidied up that afternoon.

That's when we discovered the very loud music system designed to entertain, motivate and exercise guests around the pool. Why does the music have to be so feckin' loud! "ARE WE HAVING FUN YET!" "Well I'd be having more fun if I didn't have to yell to be heard!". I don't think we're crabby old geezers and I don't think your having fun with LOUD MUSIC should impede on my quiet relaxation. We met a regular who had an ocean view (to avoid the loud music at the pool) and he tells us he and is wife have a running battle over the loud music. They even circulated a petition and have posted nasty reviews in hopes of getting the noise abated if only a little.

Here's an odd thing about the noise. Next door is an exclusive restaurant/pool area that's part of our resort. You need to pay an extra $30US per day, per person to go there. During the day it is a quiet oasis with it's own pool overlooking the ocean. At night, even there, they crank up the music. God knows where you go to escape the noise.

On hotel rooms, apart from the very large ocean view apartments, which cost a lot (well outside our reach) I really don't think there's much of a difference. There's about 300 rooms, all inward facing, where there's a largish pool, the building is in a U-shape, mostly 3 stories, with the open end to the beach. At the one end there's a garden area (taken up mostly by an unused min-golf), then there's the pool with the swim up bar, and at the beach end another pool that's a bit deeper. In the deeper pool (it's only maybe 5' deep) they do some scuba training in the morning; the rest of the day it's exercises, water polo and dumb games.

The resort has a buffet restaurant (for all meals) across the pool from us, a quick stop hamburger and chips kind of stand by the shallow pool, and three "restaurants" upstairs on the second floor above the buffet where you make a "reservation for dinner". They are Italian, Mexican and Japanese themed. We tried all three and liked the Italian restaurant the best (we had dinner there 3 times). 

There is an odd funny story about the Japanese restaurant. This is one of those affairs where they cook in front of you on a large flat grill (I think it's called a Teppanyaki) and juggle their knives, spatulas, food, etc. We had been to one before, many years ago, in London with Jack and Doreta. Anyway, the night we were there the chef is doing his shtick (with lots of flames and odd sexually suggestive food arrangements) when one of the servers announces that it's the chef's birthday today. The server leads us in song, "Happy birthday to you!". I even add in a second verse, and got a few laughs:

May you live a thousand years
May you drink a thousand beers
Get plastered, you b...ad boy
Happy birthday to you!

Anyways, a few nights later we're at the Italian restaurant (they all share a kitchen and washroom area) and what do I hear people singing, next door, in the Japanese restaurant? Why they're singing "Happy birthday to you!" What an odd coincidence; odd that the same chef should have two birthdays! Does he have one every night?

When you arrive one of the things "The Reef" (ie. the resort company) wants you to do is sit for a morning sales pitch where they try to sell you on investing in a long stay — here or at another development (they have three and might be working on another). One of the rewards for doing so was a fancy dinner set by the seaside. We declined both. Although we did meet a Canadian who had invested in 60 weeks at this resort which he's been spreading out over several years. He gets an ocean view room that faces the ocean, just down the hall from ours, that avoids the noise and music around the pool. I don't think I'd like to come to the same resort every time; especially this one.

The food at the buffet was fine (never quite hot enough for me) and the staff were friendly. We'd often meet up with a server, Deyadira, at breakfast, she'd serve us coffee and would always joke with us asking if we wanted tequila with our breakfast. We'd decline but promised her that on our last day we'd try a "Tequila Sunrise" and we did. We got talking to her a bit; she tells us she works every day (I guess resorts jobs are pretty good in the pecking order) and is early in a pregnancy. We congratulate her and wish her well. Kate was talking to one of the young chefs at breakfast who was making breakfast omelettes. She tells us she's on an internship, is grateful to be there, and doesn't get paid at all!

On the pay issue, although I suppose resort staff are paid well by Mexican standards, I rather doubt it's paid well by our standards. We were encouraged by friends to bring some cash with us and tip the servers. This we did regularly, at meals, at the bar, taxis and for the domestic who cleans our room. We saw that others did the same (not a lot, but some). We had quite a bit of Mexican cash with us in fairly large denominations. We found it impossible to get bills changed. At the front desk the smallest bill they ever had was $500MX; we were aiming to drop $50MX here and there as a tip but found it difficult.

But people don't come to all-inclusive resorts for the food. We came for the drinks. There was a small bar with a quiet sitting area at reception, another swim up bar at the pool, a bar at the buffet restaurant and, by the dive shop, a small bar that opened in the evening — we called that one the "Dive Bar". We were regulars at the pool bar; Kate devoted to pina-coladas (more dark rum please) and Reg toyed with various Margaritas (blended, on ice, less sweet, no salt, even straight tequila with a slice of lime, and sorry we don't have any Mezcal).  With our meals we'd usually drink their house white — a Spanish plonk a bit more drinkable than their house red.

Most days we'd loll around the pool, drinks in hand, maybe trying to work on the computer, until the entertainment came out and the pounding disco drove us away to the deck by the sea at the "Dive Bar" where we'd play Mexican Train. That's a simple tile/dominos game we brought with us; our friend Joan introduced us to the game years ago. It's fun, requires some thought, but the winner is often by luck. One day a guest walking by enviously asked if we had got the game at the resort. "Sorry no, we brought it."

Working on our laptops, tablets, etc. to sort photos and write in this blog was difficult. The screens just aren't bright enough when sitting outside. Our balcony might have been nice but then there was the loud "music" that would drive you away. And who wants to work inside?

There were a couple of parties around the pool at night. One night there was a staged show with fireworks, another night there was a wedding party. That was a small group but they were keen to party hard.

In other posts I talk about the Street Art work I found and our visit to a local Frida Kohla museum/gallery. There's also a 3D-Museum of Wonders that we went to see downtown. We had been to one in Chaing Mai Thailand a few years ago and thought it might be fun. Unfortunately the entry fee was way out of line, we declined.

From the beach you can see large cruise ships and the resorts on Cozumel; a large island in the distance that shelters Playa del Carmen. In the evening the glow from the lights on the island lights the sky. At first I thought the large structures on the horizon where mountains on Cozumel. It turns out they were the massive, mountainous cruise boats.

We took a taxi to the Cozumel ferry terminal about 3km down the beach from our resort. One morning I had walked about half way there to the Muelle Constituyentes pier. The ferry terminal is a bigger deal by far with many high speed boats dashing back and forth. There's a park area, Parque Los Fundadores, with entertainers and lots of shops, and lots of lots of hawkers. We rode over to Cozumel, pooped around for a while, and didn't see much of the island. Apparently there's very good snorkeling around the island. We met an English couple (newly wed and Jehovah Witness) at the Japanese restaurant who had done a day long catamaran tour that stopped at 4 different snorkeling spots on the island. We might have liked that but couldn't see us lasting the day.

Years ago, in 2006, we had been to a much larger resort way out from any town, the Bahia Principe Luxury Akumal, which is closer to Tulum. We had taken this resort because it was smaller and in the town. Because it was small you were not able to get away from the hub-bub. We avoided a large resort so we wouldn't have to walk great distances to restaurants and events at the resort (for the Bahia Principe we brought our folding travel bikes so Kate could get around).

Street Art

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Playa del Carmen is an odd city with some beautiful modern buildings but there are also some terribly crappy areas. Some of each are found on our resort's doorstep.

I'm a fan of street art and there is an abundance around the city. While we didn't leave our resort very often I did get out a few times and captured some of the street art. Some of it is political, much of it is very well done, very little of it is the ugly tagging graffiti you sometimes see elsewhere.

While not "art" the store front "My Fucking Restaurant" is one of the oddest I have ever encountered. I really like the devilish creature pictured at left.


Friday, November 21, 2025

Greetings from Canada

While basking in the sun we remember that all is not well in this world. I write to our friend Igor in Kharkiv:

"Greetings from Kate and Reg. We hope this finds you. (sic!)

We haven't written in some time but you're often in our thoughts. As winter settles in Canada and Ukraine this is yet another tough season ahead for you and the war in UA. Today we're escaping the cold in sunny Mexico but return to Canada soon for the Christmas season. You cannot so easily escape the hardships of winter and war.

We see that Russia continues their daily barrage against the civilian population and energy infrastructure throughout UA. I hope you are safe and doing well in spite of all that and can be comfortable this winter.

We are pleased to see long range strikes into Russia with locally developed drone technologies. Congratulations there. We see EU members continue and escalate their support with aircraft, missile defence, access to frozen Russia assets and more. Much more should be done to support UA and end this war.

Trump, the Lyin' King, continues as an embarrassment to the free world, a fickle friend to NATO and UA, and an obvious Putin Puppet. Recent US "peace" plans seem to be, yet again, a capitulation to Russia that cannot be supported.

War can easily end; all it takes is for Russia to leave!

For many years now we have escaped winter for a month or so in Texas. Not so this year.  We have sworn never to return to the US until fascism is defeated and sanity returns. That will be a long time, but we are hopeful.

I must go now. We pray for a UA victory, a unification with the EU and NATO, a rightful just peace in our time.

Stay strong, you have friends even in the darkest hour. As Churchill said early in WW II, “This is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning.”

Slava Ukraine!
Heroyam Slava!

Next summer, or a summer soon enough, I hope we can share a drink together on the sunny beaches of UA Crimea.

XO K&R"

And a few hours later Igor replies:

"Dear Kate and Reg!

Your thoughtful and empathyc messages always lift my spirits.
It's always nice to feel the support of friends.
This winter in Ukraine will be truly difficult.
The gas supply is working without interruptions, so my house is warm. But the electricity is intermittent for six hours, twice a day. So, I bought a gasoline generator. Along with the electricity, the water supply is also cut off.
But Ukrainians are a resilient and resourceful people! Today, I built a makeshift water tower in the attic of my house :)
I'm sure we will overcome all difficulties and prevail!
And then, of course, we'll meet in Ukrainian Crimea :)

Best wishes,
Igor"

We are so pleased that we can still connect, he's still there: alive and kicking. I reply 

"So glad our message found you. We can't imagine the hardships your compatriots are experiencing. It's like some bad movie.

We hope for and believe in better days.

Until next time. 

Your faithful feckless friends from Canada"

And Igor signs off a smile :)

Thursday, November 13, 2025

Frida Kahlo

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Kate has discovered that there's a Frida Kahlo gallery/museum in Playa del Carmen (see Museo Frida Kahlo Riviera Maya on Facebook). It's an opportunity for us to get out of the resort, see some art and some of the city. We have a taxi pick us up and drive us near the museum about 20 minutes away near the city center. 

Taxi rides run $200MX for most destinations in the city; that's about $16CA, but we usually just divide by 10 to figure out the exchange. 

There's a modest entry fee and we are given a conducted tour with a young woman who tells us the story of Frida Kahlo's life on display in series of exhibits. I knew a little bit, that she had lived her life in pain, but it turns out I knew very little. She had childhood polio which crippled her one side and as a young woman nearly died in a tram crash that crushed her spine. Throughout her life she had many surgeries and many cumbersome braces to "fix" these problems. But nothing ever worked, she lived a life of pain.

This is more a museum than a gallery. There are no original works of hers but several digital copies on display. I understand that she only painted 150-200 pieces in her life; that's not a lot for an artist of her renown. But like many artists her fame is largely posthumous. One of the recreations in the museum was a physical replica of her bed (cf. pictured above which broke records in a recent auction):

An arresting self-portrait by Frida Kahlo, featuring the artist slumbering beneath a tangle of vines in a carved canopy bed with a skeleton reclining above her, set records at a Sotheby's auction on Thursday night in New York. The 1940 painting, called El sueño (La cama), sold for $54.7 million, the most expensive artwork by a woman ever auctioned. It also broke the previous auction record for Kahlo's work. — See NPR article 2024/11/19.

The tour guide, noting Kate's mobility issues, finds a wheel chair for us and leads us through the museum. There aren't a lot of patrons today. We learn of her birth, her family, her childhood, travels to the US and Europe, and much more. For much of her life, because of the polio and tram injuries, she painted from her bed as in the picture above. That explains why many of her works are pictures of herself; she was painting from a mirror hanging over her. Her uni-brow is a well known feature of these paintings. She was adamantly proud of who she was and how she looked.

She had an interesting, eventful life, nonetheless. She married the same man twice, Diego Rivera (an likewise famous artist), had several lovers, she was bisexual, a communist (there's a connection to Trotsky), and an advocate for Mexican traditions in art (like the day of the dead folk art) and dress.

One of the exhibits was a day of the dead altar; we've seen these in Austin. On the altar are several offerings, Mezcal and Tequila, and several large skulls. We are told by the guide that one of Frida's favorite candies was the "Day of Dead" sugar skulls. There's a picture of her holding a life size candy skull. Our guide gave us a couple of small candy skulls as souvenirs of the museum.

Frida Kahlo died in 1954 at 47years of age after a lifetime of pain. Apparently her last recorded words were written in her diary shortly before her death: "I joyfully await the exit — and I hope never to return". I also have read of an other equality poignant ending, 

Shortly before her death, Frida said: "When I die, burn my body. I don't want to be buried. I spent a lot of time lying down. Just burn it!" On July 13, 1954, the rain said goodbye to Frida Kahlo, who for her funeral had been dressed in a typical Mexican and with her right hand resting on her chest. Her body was cremated and her ashes are kept in the Casa Azul in Coyoacán, the place where she was born. Her last painting is exhibited at the Frida Kahlo Museum. It is an oil painting that shows several pieces of watermelon in very bright tones. In one of them, and next to her signature, it reads: "Viva la vida. Coyoacán, 1954, México".    — See Handmade by Paola Pizzaferri on Facebook.

With the fuss about the auction, only a few days ahead, Noelle, our gifted artist niece, posted on Facebook one of her digital works commemorating Frida. I really like that work and have left a copy in the photo gallery above.

P.s. this Museum/Gallery in Play del Carmen should not be confused with the Museo Frida Kahlo in Coyoacán, where Frida was born, lived and died, which is a much larger proper gallery with original artworks.  Nevertheless, I'd recommend visiting this museum when in Playa del Carmen.