Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Hair of the Dog

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Since at least 2016 Kate's brother Gord and his wife Leslie have hosted a "Hair of the Dog" party on New Years day at their home in Ottawa. They move the furniture out of the way, set up some sound equipment (mic's, amps, music stands, keyboard, etc.), and invite their musical friends over to "jam it up". Some not so musical types, like me and Kate, take in the event as well. We drove up on December 30th and returned January 2. It's a party we wouldn't miss. Of course during the pandemic the party was on hiatus.

Kate can play a bit of guitar and I'm always after her to sing a song with me (like "Dirty Old Town" or "The Crawl") but she's usually reluctant. This year was no exception. She strummed along but we never took the mic. Gord has let us know that if he ever hears "Angel from Montgomery" again he may go postal. Dang, we love John Prine.

Of the many tunes played by the many musicians I'll mention some that stand out. Gord did a rousing version of "Auld Lang Syne" in a rasta beat with a spoken interlude thanking everyone for coming. That's Gord in the photo above. A musical friend, who plays multiple instruments, did a moving version of Steve Earle's "Goodbye". Leslie did a couple — "A Bar Song (Tipsy)" by Shaboozey (apparently a big radio hit that none knew) and "Once Every Hundred Odd Years" by Silver Hearts (which I can only find on YouTube). There were some very accomplished musicians who must have put in their 10,000 hours.

We renewed conversations with guests we've met over the years and figured out some connections. Carolyn, an academic, is friends with Leslie (via CEGEP schooling) but also with our "neice" Kait through working on the homeless issue. Gord and Leslie gave a rough head count of 36 musicians and guests. Quite the gang!

As it's January 1 I'm starting my "Dry January" and kept the drinking to a minimum (unlike the night before). Our No.1 son asks if by "Dry January" I mean I'll only drink dry wines? No, Chris that's not what I mean.

Thursday, December 26, 2024

Christmas for Kate

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Every year, for many years now, I've prepared a "Xmas for Kate" CD of tunes to remind us of the year that has past, events we've been to and places we've been. You can find these playlists on my iTunes and YouTube channels (click on the image for the 2024 YouTube playlist).

Kate's car has a CD player, our Honda CRV does not. The portable CD player I have for my computer, which I use to create the CD for Kate, failed recently and was replaced.  I'm not sure how long we'll continue with physical media like CD's. What was once the state of the art is now dated and obsolete.

This year we did get to do some travels. We returned to Austin for our winter long stay; we hadn't been back since 2020 when the pandemic hit. A lot has changed in Austin. In the spring/early summer we were back in Australia; Kate had a conference in Fremantle, we visited with friends in Brisbane and had a short say on Lady Elliot Island. In the early fall we drove out to New Brunswick to visit with our neice Paula. And then there was the US election in November, Christmas in December.

What follows is an annotation of the music selected on this year's playlist.
  1. "Amarillo Highway (For Dave Hickey)", from "Lubbock (On Everything)", by Terry Allen (1979). In Austin we saw David Rameriz do a swaggering version of this song at a Moody Theatre event. I really liked the expression "I don't wear no Stetson, But I'm willin' to bet son, That I'm as big a Texan as you are!"
  2. "No Tom Petty", from "Invisible Mary - Single", by Kimmie Rhodes (2024). We saw Kimmie at a house concert and then at the Saxon Pub in Austin. " ...we're livin' in a world with no Tom Petty, the world was bad enough already".
  3. "Sunday Mornin' Comin' Down", from "Songs Of Kristofferson", by Kris Kristofferson (1988). Original release 1969/70. The world got even worse, Kris died in September.
  4. "Dollar Bill Bar", from "Trail Of Flowers", by Sierra Ferrell (2024). Hot album and artist on the Americana charts. A bar tale.
  5. "Old Familiar Drunken Feeling", from "El Viejo", by Corb Lund (2024). Another hot Americana artist, this time Canadian. And another hard drinkin' bar tale, this time with a THC twist.
  6. "I'm Waiting for the Man", from "The Power of the Heart: A Tribute to Lou Reed", by Keith Richards (2024). When hard drinkin' leads to very hard livin'. I really liked Lou Reed's work in the 1970's, Keith Richards survived that hard livin'.
  7. "The Painkillers Ain’t Workin’", from "In The Throes", by Buddy & Julie Miller (2023). This appeared on last year's CD and I'm sorry to say they're still not workin'.
  8. "Sleeping On The Blacktop", from "Imaginary Appalachia", by Colter Wall (2015). Another hot Canadian on the Americana charts. I recognized this tune in a TV series we were watching. We saw him at Waterloo Records a few years ago.
  9. "I Already Know", from "Someday, Maybe Sooner", by Barbara Nesbitt (2020). An Austin singer we've seen several times. The song is a woman "done wrong" and planning on revenge: "She [momma] hated being married, knows where all the bodies are buried, And thinks you'll fit right in."
  10. "Down Home Girl", from "Give the People What They Want", by Rainbow Girls (2019). Paula sang this one for us on her deck in the woods. A very funny love song.
  11. "Right Back to It (feat. MJ Lenderman)", from "Tigers Blood", by Waxahatchee/Kathryn Crutchfield (2024). Another hot Americana artist. I love the voice and melody, but haven't figured out the story.
  12. "Sun in an Empty Room", from "Reunion Tour", by Weakerthans (2007). A nice tune Kate likes; it's used in a podcast she listens to. A Canadian band from Winnipeg — Kate's home town.
  13. "California Stars", from "Mermaid Avenue", by Billy Bragg & Wilco (1998). I keep bumping into this lovely tune. Lyrics are by Woody Guthrie; there was no music with the lyrics. An invention by Bragg and Wilco that works very well.
  14. "Dumb Things", from "Paul Kelly's Greatest Hits: Songs From The South, Volumes 1 & 2", by Paul Kelly (1987). Paul Kelly is an Australian institution and, like him, we've done some dumb things.
  15. "What If You Were a Refugee", from "What If You Were a Refugee - Single", by Lynn Miles (2015). There's a lot of folks blaming immigration for our woes, they need to have some empathy and imagine themselves as refugees.
  16. "The Lunatics (Have Taken over the Asylum)", from "The Fun Boy Three (Extended Version)", by Fun Boy Three (1981). How true! On November 6, 2024 the "Don" from Mara-Lardo is elected president of the USA — we are surely in for some "interesting times".
  17. "Grateful for Christmas", from "KMAG YOYO (& Other American Stories)", by Hayes Carll (2011). We like Hayes Carll, he's grown on us. We did get to see him a few years ago at Waterloo Records.
  18. "She Left Me For Jesus", from "Trouble In Mind", by Hayes Carll (2007). Another Hayes Carll. The premise, that his girl friend left him for Jesus, and he thinks Jesus is some guy: "If I ever find Jesus, I'll kick his ass!" I wonder how Steve Earle feels about Allison Moorer leaving him?
  19. "When I'm Dead", from "Voices", by Eric Bogle (2016). Another great Australian singer. We saw him while we were in Brisbane and feel particularly blessed. This is just a funny song, but makes you think — no one gets out of this game alive.
These songs span our life with the earliest being by Kris around 1969. There are quite a few about/by heroes who are no longer around; some are obvious, like Tom Petty, Kris Kristofferson, and Lou Reed; others are subtle like Terry Hall (1959-2022) of Fun Boy Three and others long gone like Woody Guthrie (1912-1967). So I guess the outro song by Eric Bogle fits pretty well. When the story ends, we can plan for it, we can laugh about it.

Tuesday, December 17, 2024

Home From Overseas (1945)

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A clipping from the Markdale Standard November 1, 1945 as posted December 15, 2024 to the Markdale Standard Memories Facebook group by Helen Ward. Google extracted the following text (with minor edits) from the image of the newspaper clipping.

"Home From Overseas

A member of the 1st Hussars to return home this week after four years of army life in the front lines is "Mac" Dixon, son of Mr. and Mrs. Russel!! Dixon of Markdale, and formerly of Walters Falls. This regiment was one of three who were assigned the special task, after months of training, of forming the spearhead on the Normandy beach on D-day, and Mac is one of the few survivors of their regiment whose experiences would, no doubt, fill a book. Mac Dixon went overseas with the Ist Hussars, the 6th Armoured Regimen:, in 1941. After landing in England they were broken up, and with troops from the Grey and Simcoe Foresters and other regiments, his detachment formed the 2nd Armoured Brigade. During three years in England they were on guard duty, and for seven months were trained for the task of Invasion under the British 79th Army Division.

It has just recently "been told how their tanks were made to actually swim the channel under water, and in the crossing Mac was one who had his share of thrills as well as good fortune. By means of a canvas hood, air-filled inner-tubes and other gadgets, their steel tanks carrying a crew of specially trained men, were given the task of landing on D-day. It so happened the sea was heavy that morning and the floating tank carrying Mac with four other crew sank — which must have felt like the end of everything. But the Hussars were prepared for that, and equipped with suits much like that of pearl divers and special oxygen masks, when they hit bottom and their tank filled with water, the pressure was released and they reached the surface. Three were able to reach the floating air raft, leaving Mac and his pal still in the water. While still floating his pal met death, and Mac was picked up two hours later by a small craft of  L. O. P. All went well till their craft hit a mine, and they were thrown out. Of the crew of five Mac was lucky enough to be still in one piece and to float in with the tide about two hours after the first tanks had landed on the beach.

The rest of their squadron continued on into France, and it was here that W. E. Harris was in command and was wounded shortly after he took over. At the Belgium border Mac was slightly wounded and rested in hospital for fifteen days.

When he returned to the field a new regiment was being formed to carry the infantry to the front lines — the youngest Regiment in existence in the Canadian Army, and called the Armoured Carrier Regiment (the Kangaroos). It was formed from various detachments of men and their Canadian Ram tanks with the turrets removed were used as carriers for the infantry. It was on this assignment that they went into their last attack on V-E day in Germany. It was also while carrying wounded back to the clearing station that he met Pte. Isaac Lemon, an old school fellow from Walters Falls.

After V-E day this Regiment was broken up in Holland, and he was reposted to the 1st Hussars. While there he was posted for home, and enjoyed leave in England before sailing. At the Coliseum, Exhibition grounds, in Toronto on Sunday, he received a warm welcome from his parents and other members of the Dixon family.

On one of his previous leaves in England Mac had visited the grave of his only brother, Sgt. Pilot Walter Dixon, who had been killed in England in April, 1942."

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The article is pretty accurate. The Duplex Drive tanks are better described in Wikipedia. They did not "swim" so much as "float" and they didn't do that very well. We have visited Juno Beach (2020) where Mac's tank, the Bold, is on display. It raised from the sea in 1971 having been a fishing obstacle fouling nets for many years. Juno was one of the several beaches at the D-Day landing of June 6, 1944. I was aware that Mac went on to serve with the "Kangaroos" but this is the first place I've seen that explained. 

Mac Dixon was Reg's uncle. The younger brother of his mother Margaret Dixon. She describes the family ordering:

"My brothers and sisters were Edna (1916-1959), Grace (1917-2012), Walter (1919-1943), Margaret (1920-1997), William (Mac) (1922-1999), and Iva (1925-1997).  Walter died during in England training as a pilot during the war. Mac drove tanks and similar equipment during the war, he landed at D-day and returned home safely." — See Grandmother's Album (2021) in this blog.

You may notice the date was December of 1945 when Mac returned home — VE-day was  May 8, 1945. The reason for the delay was Mac was single and married men were returned home first. For more see Going Home 1945-46 at the War Museum. Uncle Mac went on to marry Aunt Shirley (nee King) and raised four children: Nancy, Walter, Dianne and Gordon.  It was Dianne who drew my attention to the Facebook posting.

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Monday, December 9, 2024

Toys for Tots

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Yesterday, Sunday December 8, Kate and I went into London to see some of the "Toys for Tots" show at the Palasad. Apparently this is the 12th anniversary of the show — the goal is to have some fun and in the process raise funds and collect gifts for needy boys and girls. They have arranged for something like 13 different bands to play starting at 1pm and ending at 9 (see the poster for all the bands and the sponsors). That kind of time line is a little beyond our endurance — we arrived around 4pm and left around 7pm having caught these acts: Stunning, Distgusteen and Boys from Nowhere. Each were great, well worth the drive into the city.

We arrived just as Stunning (with Scott, aka Steven R. Stunning, on lead voice) was starting their set. We had brought a toy to add to the donation pile and found a table near the stage where we joined Rena & Dave (pictured, credit: Kate) who were sitting with Debbie. It turns out that today (Monday) is Debbie's birthday. We were greeted warmly with hugs exchanged. We would have first met Debbie at our London home back in the early 1980's. At the time she was dating Peter from 63 Monroe. It turns out that 63 Monroe was the closing/headline act for the evening, we weren't able to stay until the bitter end.

After the Stunning set (sic!) I bumped into Scott and Oscar at the bar. I bought Oscar a beer and he tells me he's currently playing in three different bands. Scott was pleased to see me, I even got a hug and a peck on the cheek. He asked about Kate and came around to say hello later. I gather Scott is one of the driving forces in organizing this event.

Disgusteen is a very competent Teenage Head tribute band. I recognized the tunes while chatting with Scott and Oscar at the bar. Stunning and Boys from Nowhere are punk/rock & roll. From the stage Scott had announced the tunes they performed were from a soon to be released album. The singer from Boys from Nowhere commented on how the audience was mostly older/mature folk like us and them who still like to rock and roll — we just jiggle now as we're all carrying some extra weight. There were lots of young people as well but mainly aged rock and rollers dressed in leather, denim or ugly Christmas sweaters.

The photos in the album (at least at the moment) are digital. I thought it might be fun to try the old school method and shoot a bit of film with my Nikon F, a Nikkor 80-200 zoom, and a Vivitar 3900 handle flash (see my Senseless Collection (2023)). I must confess that the old school is awkward, heavy and constrained. The Canon t6i with a 18-135 is far easier to use. Kate dropped off a roll of film for processing this morning and asks, "Why would you spend $20 to get film developed when you can shoot digital for free? And then you have to wait until January for the results!". Good question. My only answer is GAS (Gear Acquisition Syndrome) — My name is Reg and I'm an addict.

Tuesday, October 1, 2024

McAdams and Home

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Our trip home from Fredericton, NB was pretty uneventful. Rather than return via the Canadian route and retrace some of the path through Quebec and eastern Ontario we decided to take "the American Route" through Maine, New Hampshire, Massachusetts and New York. Our idea was to make time on the Interstate system and only stop for a couple of overnights on the road. We had fine weather and enjoyed the drive but didn't do much touristing.

The first overnight stay, Monday, was at the Kittery Inn & Suites in Kittery, which is just at the Maine/New Hampshire border. The last night, Tuesday, was at a La Quinta in Batavia, NY just outside of Buffalo. We might have made it home with only one stop but this was hectic enough. Kate was nursing her painful ankle injury, often times stretched out in the back, and I did pretty much all the driving. On our last day, Wednesday, we crossed at Lewistown/Queenstown Heights and were home by early afternoon. Glad to be home where our cats have been kindly cared for by our friend Chandel from Trusted House Sitters.

Our first stop on Monday, before leaving Canada, was to visit the McAdam CPR Railway Station. This was one of those "peculiar travel suggestions" that Kate is so fond of. When we were visiting the Resurgo Place/Museum in Moncton Kate had asked if there was an interesting train station in town. The guide remarked that although there is a train station in Moncton, it's not particularly interesting. If you want to see something really interesting visit the former CPR station in the town of McAdam. It's an alternate route to Maine but well worth the diversion.

That's a view of the McAdam station above. There's an extensive Wikipedia page with lots of information but here's my quick summary. It's quite large, built of stone, three stories with guest rooms on the second floor and staff rooms on the third. The station hotel was built around 1900 to cater to wealthy travellers to/from the US. The station is the first within Canada on what was a rail line destined to link the east coast to the US. It was abandoned by CPR/VIA back in 2005 and has since been restored and maintained by a local historical society. That's quite the feat as the village of McAdam, at last census, was barely 1,200 bodies. The station is an important landmark designated as both a National and a Provincial Historic Site.

I recall a couple of interesting stories about the station. First, when the station was shutdown CPR had told those working there to take anything they wanted. They did, the station was effectively stripped by the townsfolk. However, when the McAdam Historical Restoration Commission was set up and they went about restoring the station all those artifacts were donated back to the station. Second, apparently kitchen staff (at the restaurant and luncheon counter) were in the habit of tossing dirty dishes into the nearby lake to expedite cleanup. There's quite a display of broken dishware retrieved from the lake. How did they get away with that?

We did not have time to take a tour but were taken on a bit of one nevertheless — they insisted! There's a spacious waiting room in the middle with a restored ticket office and station masters office. At the very far end there's a massive lunch counter room and between them a very large fine dining area. They have special event dinners here (like at Christmas) and have even catered weddings. At the other end there would have been area for baggage, mail room, customs and the like. Several exhibits on the war effort, train crashes, and more history were on display in that area.

We were talking to one of the fellows who is very involved in the management of the site. I had noted that the building had a newly shingled roof and wondered about the cost. He was telling us that they're trying to upgrade the heating system (although it's only open during the warmer summer months, it has to be heated all year round) and how much it cost just to maintain the building during the cold winter months. We were surprised that it's this small community, not National Parks and Monuments, that keeps this place going. They of course get some national and provincial funding and grants. During the summer/tourist season, when they are open, they get 50-100 visitors each day. Visitors who tour the building are another important source of funding — which helps to explain why they insisted we do at least some of the tour (we didn't go upstairs to see the guest rooms).

From McAdam it's a short drive to cross the US border at the towns of  Vanceboro (ME) and Saint Croix (NB). We followed the two lane Route 6 through to Interstate 95 at Lincoln where we could really make time. It was a pleasant drive through densely forested hill country where the leaves were brightly on display. There were, no surprise, several logging trucks along the way. Some quite large. I was surprised at how much forested land there was on this trip. Here in Southern Ontario, where we live, there remains some forest but most land is flat, well drained, and intensely agricultural.

We zoomed quickly along Interstate 95 to Kittery where we had reserved a room. On check in we asked the clerk about local eateries. She replied, "Well, there's Roberts" ... followed by a long pause. So I guess that's where we have to go. She gave us no other options; but this was a good choice. It's only a few miles back on Route 1, which runs parallel to the interstate.  Roberts Maine Grill and Raw Bar  is a pleasant modern facility in a clapboard building, with a faux lighthouse entrance, set on a large tidal creek. There's a small outdoor area on the second floor but the weather is cool and it's not open. Reg has yet another lobster feed — this time it's steamed lobster with lots of butter and corn bread. Kate has a lobster risotto. Both were yummy, just as good, if not better, than anything we've had on this trip.

The next day, Tuesday, was a long 8 hour drive to Batavia, NY, with only rest area/fueling stops along the way. We are only briefly in New Hampshire (there's all of 20 miles of NH that butts onto the Atlantic shore); we skirt around Boston and meet up with Interstate 90 that will take us all the way to Buffalo with our overnight stay in Batavia.

The interstate system is pretty great but most of it on this trip was on toll roads. In Maine there were staffed toll booths where you would stop; but they weren't taking any Canadian cash and we didn't have any US money. They gave us paper receipts/bills and that evening we were able to login at the web site to pay the fares. Interstate 90 was different; instead of toll booths they had toll sites along the way to capture your licence plate or transponder signal. Since we didn't have a transponder at the end of the day we logged into another site to give them our Mastercard and tie it to our licence plate. I've not seen the bill yet but I'm confident it was not cheap. We might have avoided this expensive route by heading cross country on secondary roads through the moutains; that might have been fun, it would have been scenic and taken much, much, longer!

At Batavia, which seems to be a horse racing destination, we note a crew of Mexican Americans who are doing some restoration work on the entrance to the La Quinta where we are staying. They were busy and spoke to one another in Spanish. Should Trump get his way, will these be part of the 10 million deported? And if so, then Who's Gonna Build Your Wall?

— An update on the New York Interstate fares. We were billed only $28.43; that's far cheaper than the fare to use the Ontario 407!!

Sunday, September 29, 2024

Fredericton, NB

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On Saturday, the day after the wedding, we four (me and Kate, Sam and Barry) headed out to Fredericton, NB for a couple of days. The "newlyweds" were flying home to Winnipeg on Monday from "Freddy", we were heading home via the "US route" the same day.

We had some travel suggestions/guidance from family and friends. Paula did her MA at the University there so was able to provide several recommendations including the gallery and a couple of restaurants. Our other friend Sam (of Sam and Albie in London) had lived in the area in her youth; her sister is still in the area. She recommended we check out the pretty town Gagetown which is on the St John River just a little off the Trans Canada Highway 2 (about two hours from Shediac and an hour or so to Fredericton). Oddly the "Gagetown Military Base" is in Oromocto, closer to Fredericton, and not in Gagetown. There's a story there but I'm not entirely clear about it.

We stopped in Gagetown to have lunch at Gulliver's World Cafe on River Run Lane. Kate had read about it on TripAdvisor (or perhaps Google Maps); it was rated as the best restaurant in Gagetown. But then again Gagetown is a very small town, not much larger than a village, and only has maybe two other restaurants. It wasn't hard to find tucked down a lane beside the river.

We arrived to a lovely sunny day. The restaurant had a patio where we could sit to enjoy the view and it wasn't very busy. There was another table being served. The hostess, who turned out to be the owner with her husband (the chef), asked if we had reservations. "Ah, no. Do we need one?" It turns out that reservations are very much recommended, especially at this time of year. They chef orders supplies sufficient for those who have made reservations and, as we didn't make a reservation, they may not have enough in stock to feed us. She checked with the chef and fortunately they were able to take us. The menu was quite limited — a soup, some sandwiches and a roast chicken which I had. I'm surprised we weren't seated right away without any fuss.

We enjoyed the food and drinks and had quite a chat with the server/hostess/owner. I understand they cater to weddings and other special events. Also that their busy season is the summer and at this time of year they really looking towards shutting down for the season. It's a lovely spot on the river and perhaps it was busy with reservations that evening. But not so busy when we stopped in for lunch. It was perhaps busier than expected, especially since there's not much else in the town. We think it's a "destination" kind of place.

We gas up at the highway and discover you can buy liquor and wine at the gas station. We stocked up. Needlessly. Which meant we entered the US later a little over our liquor import limits. Fortunately the kindly fellow at US Customs and Immigration did not ask nor did the Canadians when we crossed back into Canada.

In Fredericton we're staying at the Delta Fredericton (a Marriott) a little up the river from the center of town. Kate and Sam have made the reservation, I stay out of the way as they check in. Barry has yet to learn to leave well enough alone ("A lotta guys would stay clear ...."). The Delta is a large, fairly posh place, with a convention center and an outdoor pool/recreation areas (closed for the season). There was some big international convention/gang there during our stay. They were competing in a fishing competition. Google tells me:

"The 2024 Pan-American Black Bass Championship will be held in Fredericton, New Brunswick from September 25–29, 2024"

The fishers had team uniforms and hung out at the bar until very late. Much later than we. There was some live music that evening at the lobby bar (we had eaten at the hotel restaurant). They were pretty competent musicians and played music we enjoyed. We asked them, even asked them on a $20 bill, to play certain songs. It became a bit of game as they'd usually turn down our requests. "I like the music, I know the song, but we haven't rehearsed that one!". They dragged a friend in who was able to play some John Prine for us. The waitstaff, the next day, were telling us that someone from the fishing tourney bought a round for everyone at the bar. They had a hard time shutting things down that night!

The next day we used Uride (an alternative to Uber, there is no Uber in Fredericton) to get around the city. Our hard drinkin' ways mean that we ought to be safe rather than sorry.

At Paula's recommendation we first went to the Beaverbrook Art Gallery. We arrived there on Sunday morning just as it opened. It's a large modern gallery, across the street from the NB Parliament, with a collection that just blew me away. There's a modest entry fee you pay at the gift shop. We found that you could borrow a wheel chair which I used to push Kate around. Not that she couldn't walk, but this makes it much easier for her.

The first gallery we enter has an impressive collection of Canadiana — Group of Seven through to modern classics like Alex Colville, Mary and Christopher Pratt. There's a large group of religious paintings from around 1500. Nearby is Kent Monkman's "The Trapper's Bride" (2006) — we saw a travelling exhibit of his works at the LRAG (London) with Ross and Bev a few years ago. One of the real surprises there is a large (3m x 4m) Salvador Dali, "Santiago El Grande" (1957), which, with a few smaller pieces occupies it's own gallery at the end of the building. It's a piece you would expect to find at the MOMA in New York, the Louvre in Paris or the Prado in Spain. How it ended up here must be an interesting story.

In the basement there were some experimental installations. All quite interesting. But Sam and Barry are not as keen. We return to find them nursing a glass of wine in the lobby. We have a lunch at a nearby restaurant Isaac's Way. We sit outside on the back patio which overlooks a classic red and white clapboard lighthouse. Inside they have interesting quotations on the wall including:

"Once, during the Depression, I was forced to live for days on nothing but food and water!"
— W.C. Fields

We return for a rest at our hotel and meet up with the newlyweds at the bar later in the day. That evening we returned to the same area downtown to have some drinks at the 540 Kitchen & Bar (a gastro pub recommended by Paula) and dinner around the corner at MOCO Downtown (an Italian restaurant) where again the hostess/server is in fact the owner with her husband the chef. I think her son was there bussing too.

I feel we did not do Fredericton justice. There's a lot there to see and we barely brushed the surface. Perhaps next time we'll stay longer and explore more.

 



Friday, September 27, 2024

Wedding Day

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Our friend Sam (her real name is Alison, aka Altz) and her partner Barry came to visit with us in Shediac. And, while here, made it a special day on Friday by planning a small wedding service at our AirBnB at Shediac Bridge. That's them to the left, happily married with Shediac Bridge in the distance. It had been a grey dreary morning but by the end of day had cleared with glorious skies for the wedding service.

Sam and Barry stayed in Shediac proper at an historic old Victorian era boutique hotel — the Tait House. I drove into Moncton to pick them up Thursday; they had spent the previous day getting all the paper work in order for the marriage. That evening we five (Paula, Kate, me, Sam and Barry) had a pre-wedding dinner at the Kuro Sushi restaurant on the main street a short walk from the Tait House. Paula had recommended this restaurant, it's sort of a "Barbie meets Japan" themed place with a ton of pink, too many dainty floral arrangements and too many odd little knick knacks tucked around all over the place. The menu was beyond us but, with help, we got it figured out and enjoyed our meal together. 

Paula had pointed out the restaurant a few days ago when we were at La Coast (maybe three doors down) for lunch and then later that same day for dessert. Paula, who lives nearby, was a good guide to the area.

But back to Sam and Barry. Sam is a childhood friend of Kate's; they were in grade school together in Winnipeg. Kate left when she was in Grade 9 when her family moved to Belleville but she and Sam have maintained a relationship over the years. You'll find pictures of Sam throughout this blog — we often get together when travelling. Notably, I first met Sam at Our Wedding in 1980. She stood up with Kate as her "Maid of Honor". In the photos of the wedding she's the one dressed in black!

As we are all getting on in years, maintaining relationships with old friends is important. Kate and Sam had made sort of a pledge to see each other at least once a year. We could go to Winnipeg, they could come here, or we could meet up on our travels (Sam has been with us to Texas several times). Kate had suggested that Sam and Barry should come and meet us in NB if they were interested. Sam knows Paula and we thought it might be fun to explore some of the East Coast together. They said sure, sounds like fun and shortly after agreeing to come, sprung the idea of getting married here in NB. They've been together for about six years and had already agreed to get married but hadn't committed to a date and place. I think they wanted to do something simple; like elope to Las Vegas for a weekend wedding. Instead they picked this Shediac holiday.

With Paula's help they found an "officiant" in Moncton (they flew into Moncton) who would conduct a wedding service at a place of their choosing. We had thoughts about having the wedding on some beach but ended up having it at our AirBnB which overlooks Shediac Bridge and the bay. The officiant did a lovely service which actually brought tears to both Kate and me (can't speak for anyone else).

For the service Kate got to be Sam's "Maid of Honor", I got to be Barry's "Best Man", Paula got to be the ring bearer and her two dogs, Gerry and Felix, were the "witnesses" I guess. After the service we took photos of the various participants and some funny photos in costumes that Paula had brought along as a lark. We popped open some bubbly wine to share and invited the officiant to share some and come to dinner with us. That story continues in another blog post on the "Witches Crawl".